Tuesday, December 28, 2010
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Wednesday, June 9, 2010
FYI Mrs. and Mr. C were no one but the pair of mugs I had purchased from Reliance Fresh, Morabadi, Ranchi when I was in the process of settling down and courtesy a very dear person, the two mugs have breathed their last and the remains buried in the grounds!
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
In US and Canada, offices, college/university campuses and houses have wi-fi connections. One doesn't find people using the internet on the road. No wonder the person I was talking to found this very 'cool'! And I was able to give the person from the other side of the world a glimpse of Patna!
Thank you BSNL!
Monday, May 24, 2010
This sounds a reasonable explanation. My father tried to follow the same principle and he was successful as far as my brother's marriage was concerned. By the time of my marriage, he had to bend this rule. And the rule was lost as I chose my life partner. Now you might wonder if I kept the whole idea of gotra in mind or not. Being a woman and supposedly the person to carry tradition on her shoulders, I knew my gotra but my husband did not know his. And when you are in love with someone, gotra is the last thing that comes to mind. I thank God that my husband comes from a different gotra, else a Khap like situation would have sprung at home!
Jindal is right when he says that in urban areas we do not care what kind of a marriage or relationship a person is in - something which may be a huge issue in rural areas and may lead to honour killings and excommunication of families. But it again does not seem plausible to declare illegal a practice accepted by the courts! Let people, to be specific the persons getting married decide.
At this juncture comes to my mind a story I read in the English reader 'Gulmohar' when I was in Grade four or five. It was about a girl whose marriage was about to be solemnized and suddenly it was found that her gotra and the groom's gotra was the same. To over come this situation, the girl's maternal uncle adopted her and finally the marriage took place. If gotra is something that can be changed with adoption, now wonder today's educated youngsters do not wish to follow it. Similarly it is said that a woman's gotra changes after her marriage. How can this happens? The blood and the genes that are in a person's body can not change automatically after marriage. It is high time the so-called leaders and heads of the Hindu religion gave a reasonable and plausible explanation for various practices in stead of just dumping those practices on the younger generation!
Friday, May 14, 2010
Two men were heard in a conversation:
Speaker 1: Can you eat chicken, daily?
Speaker 2: No, I can not. I need a change.
Speaker 1: Then how can a person live with one wife throughout his life?
This is what our world is like. On the one hand, we celebrate women and womanhood on the 8th of March every year, 2010 being special due to the women's reservation bill. But the sad thing is that in a country like ours where women are compared to female gods and put on a pedestal during navratri, in everyday life they do not have any voice or say and are left compared to birds! That is indeed derogatory.
A girl has no say in the choice of her partners, except a very small percentage of the female population. Once married, the husband's house is her home where she must survive or perish (in terms of her identity). Generally people make attempts at survival through compromise. Nothing bad in that. But what do you in case of neglect and rejection and complains of boredom?
This is where the thin line which separates man from animals disappears! and one is left wondering: What sin did we commit to be born as women?
Its time for the new census.. census 2011 which will yield a new data base regarding our population. But the government and its machinery has come in for criticism on account of including 'CASTE' as a category in the criteria. How long are we going to make caste the most important characteristic of our population. Our Constitution talks of the Right to Equality as a fundamental right and states that discrimination can not be made on the basis of caste, class, religion etc. among the citizens of India. The question is then why does one need to have caste as a criteria for census 2011. Is it just to further certain political interests? It does not seem that averages worked out in this manner would help the cause of the most deprived. The various commissions over the years, like the Mandal Commission engaged in this act to no end. The condition of the most deprived has remained the same while those in the creamy layer are enjoying better life. Again this criteria does not seem consistent with the India of the 21st century. For an India trying to claim a place in the Security Council, for an India which looks forward to being a developed county, for an India which sees it self as a world power in software, caste sounds like a limiting factor trying to pull it back to the condition the erstwhile colonial rulers had left us with!
Sadly, we are still so centred on this feature that even our sources of entertainment centralise this issue. So whether you are watching 'Pratigya' or 'Sajan Ghar Jaana Hai' you will always be confronted with caste..and really it has become a disturbing thing! The matrimonial section of the daily papers is another place where caste rules. Its more important than a person's qualitfication or other qualities.
It's high time that politicians stopped playing with this marker to further their own ends! And it's time that the citizens of the country raised their voice against such criteria which gives an inaccurate account of our socio-economic conditon.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Moving from the trivial to the significant: Probably the mouse represents all the Benjamins of Bihar who feel that this yatra is an unnecessary expenditure where thousands are without food, clothes and shelter. It is insignificant compared to the one of the major problems inflicting the state: Education. Institutes are talking of bringing quality education back to the place where it had dawned but sadly the policies of the government are destroying those institutes which have created some of the most successful professionals in various fields in India.
Or is the mouse an underfed one like most of our population? Is he trying to tell the CM that the people need food to exist and in such times of inflation, it might be difficult for a poor NREGA labourer to meet his needs?
Well at least for the CM the docs have run the miles...wish they would do it for the common men also...no hard feelings intended..after all the CM and his policies saw a high growth rate in Bihar when other countries and states were reeling under the effects of economic depression!
As a result another barn meeting was called. In that meeting Squealer was asked questions by Benjamin and Boxer but before Squealer could reply, the Raven gave a hoarse cry and in came some beastly dogs. Though Benjamin and Boxer saved themselves, the other animals were left frightened. Then Raven addressed the gathering and said that since Squealer is working for the growth and prosperity of their technology farm, he needs to be given special treatment.
And so after some days, the animals saw some of the birds working at Squealers house and while the other animals walked on foot, Squealer bought a BMW!